An open-copyright picture of Tina Fey.
Dear Tina Fey,
Now I am not naive enough to think that a big superstar like you subscribes to the blog of a boring married musician like me, but if you’re anything like me, you have a Google Alert set up with your name and an elementary school named after you in British Columbia. If the former is the case then who knows? Maybe you’ll read this! If the latter is the case, then whoa.
I’ve always enjoyed your work, from your stuff on Weekend Update to the awesome 30 Rock. Then I got married and knew for sure that my wife would love 30 Rock, too. And she did! Now we love watching the new episodes and the older seasons on Netflix. It’s one of our absolute favorite shows, and if it weren’t for Futurama, maybe it would be our number one favorite show.
The crazy thing about people on TV is that, while you don’t know us at all, it is almost as if you are our friend. As you know from being a mother, having a kid means staying indoors and feeling kind of like a prisoner for a few months while you’re learning how to raise the kid. During that time, you were welcome in our home, making us laugh and letting us in on your quirky, hilarious personality. I don’t know what it’s like to be a celebrity with a bajillion people out there who think they’re your friends and you don’t know who they are, but I am sure it’s a strange feeling.
And so, in conclusion, let me just say that I’d like to extend to you the same offer that I extend to all our friends: if you are ever in or near south Georgia and need a guest room to stay in, you are absolutely welcome at our apartment. It’s humble and modest, and certainly you can afford at least a Holiday Inn, but we think our place has a special charm that may endear itself to you.
Also, my wife loves to bake cookies, and I have to say she makes the best chocolate chip cookies you’ll ever have. I’m serious about that.
We love visitors out in this rural town (I am here for a Master’s degree, but I’ll probably be moving soon) so we would love for THE Tina Fey to come visit and have dinner, and then spend the evening talking to us about her movies and 30 Rock while we sit trying to awkwardly make ourselves look cool in a way that is charming and organic, so that you’ll remember us and maybe even be our friends on Facebook so you can “like” our baby pictures and we can tell everyone Tina Fey likes our baby pictures.
Some Notes About Staying At Our Apartment
This section of the letter will kind of go over some important things you need to know when staying at our apartment.
First, we do have a guest bedroom but right now it is converted into an office/recording studio. The point being that you will need to give us one or two days notice before you show up so we can move the office chair and keyboards to my oldest son’s bedroom. If you don’t give us any notice but just drop in at the last minute, that’s fine, you can sleep on the couch (but it is somewhat uncomfortable and has some stains on it that I assume are from some kind of food – you know kids!), or you can sleep in our oldest son’s bedroom on the floor. Our son goes to sleep around 8:00 pm – 8:30 pm, and he’s kind of woken up easily, so you will need to go to sleep around the same time as him. If you wake him up in the middle of the night, it is your responsibility to soothe him back to sleep.
If you choose the office, just know that you’ll be sleeping on a borrowed air mattress with a slow leak. It’s really quite comfortable for the first half of the night but will probably be somewhat uncomfortable for the rest of the night. Unfortunately the air pump is quite loud, and it’s right next to the baby’s room, so we ask that you just refrain from trying to pump it back up until morning. Also, we’ve found that as the air leaks out, the mattress sort of envelops people and makes it very difficult to get out of. But you might find this quite funny, and we can’t afford to fix it, so it’s not something we’re going to do anything about.
I don’t know if you’d be bringing your kids and/or significant other, but that’s totally up to you. We love kids, and the air mattress is surprisingly big (again, for the first half of the night or so).
We live in income-based housing so you probably shouldn’t get too friendly with the neighbors. You can talk to them now and then, that’s fine, but what I’m saying is don’t leave your car unlocked or give them any indication of when we’ll all be away from the apartment. Loose lips sink ships as they say! If our apartment is broken into after you visit we will hold you responsible.
Also, our upstairs neighbors can be quite loud and yell at their kids. We’re not used to Georgia culture (we’re from Kentucky originally) so we just assume there is some kind of culture difference in Georgia regarding the levels of acceptable yelling at kids. I don’t know how they do things in New York City but you might find the yelling quite jarring. I know we did. Also, these neighbors seem to stomp a lot. It sounds like a freakin drunk Clydesdale up there, especially at night, but on good nights it doesn’t wake the kids up.
The other thing is my school schedule. I go to school during the day this semester, so during that time if you want to just hang out, feel free to help yourself to anything in the fridge and my wife will give you the password to our Netflix account. Now if you’re anything like me, you like seeing videos of yourself so watch all the 30 Rock you want. I think there is also old SNL stuff on Netflix too. I mean, really, it’s up to you what you watch obviously, just please don’t watch anything inappropriate while our children are watching.
Or if you want, you and my wife can go visit our small little town during the day. There are a few thrift stores and like three good restaurants here. Actually if you come to visit my work I could show all my friends at school that I have such a famous friend. You could even come to my labs and teach a few of them for me. Do you know anything about research methods in psychology? Never mind, I’m sure you could just improvise it – that’s what you do, after all!
Don’t worry about overstaying your welcome, just know that my kids would probably get pretty used to you after a few days and my oldest son (he’ll be 2 this week!) really hates it when people leave. The point being that if you plan on staying longer than a week or so, please make a plan to gradually wean the kids off you by punctuated visits over the next month or so, gradually decreasing in duration and frequency – there are psychological principles behind this, but I won’t bore you with the details of course! But please stay long enough till you can see how cool we are. What I mean is, I get pretty tongue-tied around celebrities that I like and would probably spend 1-2 days saying very dumb things that might even border on offensive, and after that I might actually acclimate to your presence and return to my witty, charming self who says funny things and you want to be around me and like the things I say on Facebook so my friends can see you liking the things I say on Facebook.
Lastly, our oldest son doesn’t really bite anymore but I really can’t make any guarantees about that. He’s kind of unpredictable around strangers.
Now obviously when you’re here we won’t charge you rent or anything – we’ll just have to work out exactly how much of the water/utilities you will use when you are here. I am not sure how this is customarily done – there’s probably a YouTube video on timing how long people are in the shower and using that to calculate how much water is used. Then we just multiply that by how much water costs. I don’t know, I’m not good at math – we can work that out later if you decide to come. Certainly there’s a formula or something.
Once again, Tina, we would be so pleased to have you as our house-guest. Thanks for reading and getting back to me ASAP so we can make sure the dog is with my mother-in-law. Trust me about the dog, that dog is horrible.